Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...kaliyug is actually telling ‘Hey human!! Better change!! Else you will die and the entire human race will get erased on earth!!’
It is telling us many things...one among them is ‘THROW AWAY THE EGO!!...ELSE YOU CAN’T BE PEACEFUL. YOU WILL DIE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE!!...AND DIE SOON, WITH ALL TYPES OF FAILURES IN LIFE, DISEASES, DEPRESSION AND LONELINESS!!’
In an organisational context...
In olden days initially they followed ‘MASTER-SLAVE’ concept of management.
Then came ‘MANAGER-WORKER’...the time of Personnel Management.
Now it is ‘TEAM LEAD-TEAM MEMBER’...HR concept.
In the previous two concepts, the boss was full of ego that he is the ultimate. So he was a dictator. Now such a guy or his concept of leadership or management will fail miserably.
Today a person is a leader of a team with some members in a project, in another project at the same time he is required to be a member, with one of the member of other project as the Team Lead here...ie one needs to be a team lead and team member at the same time with almost same people in the teams, in two different teams or projects. For a person to be successful in this type of environment, one can not have ego. ‘I am the boss...i am the leader...all of you have to listen to me!!... i make the polcies..i decide everything here!’ will not work out!!...One who has no ego will only be successful!!
In a school or college also...
The students may be knowing more than the teacher in various other subjects and skills due to the explosion of knowledge and skill development oppurtunities through internet. So, the teacher can not have the ego of ‘I’...i know more than you...probably the teacher might know more than the student in that subject, but not in everything in life!!...And in general, the teachers remain where they are, as the ladder, and the students always grow by leaps and bounds in their career...So, here also it is better that the teacher throws away the EGO and be a good human being and guru to keep up the networking...because...no one knows which student will become what and when!!...Last bencher can become President of India also!!...After all there is much more than college or school marks in life to be an achiever or successful person!! Personality traits decide success and not intelligence!!
In a family environment...
During olden days the educational and job oppurtunities for girls were not there. They were to get born, attain age, get married, produce children and rear them, get them married off, rear the grand-children and die. This was their life.
The man had the upper hand with high ego. In-laws also were ruling with their ego. Multiple layers of social stigmas made the girl to accept the slavery and exist or survive through the life by perceiving unconditional love from plant life, pets and children.
So, father, husband, mother in law, father in law, brother in law, sister in law...all had social status with high ego. They were dictators and rulers. Today with liberation in education and job oppurtunities, equality etc girls are liberated. So, old concept of slavery will not work out now. So, kaliyug is bringing in the real equality and forcing all these egoistic people to change for peace, happiness, harmony and good health inside homes.
So, therefore...kaliyug says ‘BE DOWN-TO-EARTH...A NORMAL HUMAN BEING...ALL THE ABOVE SOCIAL STATUSES ARE FOR DELIVERING DUTIES AND RESPONSIBILITIES...NOT FOR TAKING EGO TO HEAD AND BEHAVE LIKE A MASTER...MONSTER!!...EGO IS A SELF BUILT CAGE WHERE WE BECOME SLAVE OF OUR OWNSELVES...IN THE PROCESS OF ENSLAVING OTHERS...RULING OTHERS...MASTERING OTHERS...LEADING OTHERS THROUGH EGO.
KALIYUGH SAYS IF YOU LIVE WITH EGO, THEN YOU WILL LOSE YOUR HUSBAND, WIFE, CHILDREN, PARENTS, SIBLINGS, FRIENDS...BECOME LONELY AND DIE OF SEPARATION AND DEPRESSION. YOU WILL FAIL MISERABLY IN PROFESSIONAL LIFE...LOVE LIFE...FAMIL LIFE...PERSONAL LIFE...AND SOCIAL LIFE!!
Egoistic people will also get ulcer, heart attack, vascular diseases and all anxiety and stress related disorders, illnesses and diseases.
If parents are egoistic, the children also learn the same, and in school, college and in life after marriage they boss around...and when they suffer and lose everything, they realise that their parents were wrong!!...And they learnt a wrong way of life!!
SO ALL PARENTS, PLEASE THROW AWAY THE EGO...TEACH CHILDREN TO LIVE WITHOUT EGO...
EGO MEANS THE FEELING OF "I"...I AM THE BOSS...I AM THE HEAD...I AM THE MASTER...I WILL TELL YOU, YOU OBEY...I KNOW EVERYTHING...I 'ONLY' CAN DO IT...I AM THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY...I AM THE HUSBAND...I AM EVERYTHING HERE...ETC...
If we throw away EGO then kaliyug becomes heavenly yug!!
Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist
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