We have to list down all the things and people or relationships that make us strong...we should cherish and see that these things do not leave us....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

All those who say that "I am confident. I am stable. I am cool. I am happy. I am calm. My self esteem is high!!' are actually having everything that is required to keep their brain with good secretions and for creating a good healthy mind.

They do not know what all are there in their life which is giving all this stability and confidence. Only when things or people leave their life, and when they fall down, when they lose all that i mentioned above, when their brain neurotransmitter secretions go haywire, then they realise what was or who was giving that value in their life.

The issue is our brain runs behind everything...values these things very high...after achieving that feeling of achievement remains only for a brief time...after that the brain takes it for granted...assumes that it will be there for ever in life...so it becomes complacent....but when it goes off or leaves then the brain again runs behind that. It collapses. It realizes the value of it.

No wonder mathematics always keeps saying "Find the value of X!!'....we are forced to know or find the value of x only when it leaves Y. After we find the value of x only we find out the value of Y!!

So, one or anything should never become X. It should always be with Y. For that we have to realise the importance of presence of all the things and people concerned in our lives.

We have to list down all the things and people or relationships that make us strong...with self confidence...makes us to live without fear...makes us bold...makes us resilient...

we should cherish and see that these things do not leave us. We have to do the needful for that.

Else we are likely to collapse with losses and requiring medication, counselling etc.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!