It is time for parents to come out of their shell, clutches of the true enemies. TV serial like dialogues...and support their children!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS...

These days moment i attend a call, i can hear a heavy sobbing lasting for few minutes without any word spoken by the other person...after they stabilize they either crib about a person who has left their life, or torture of their parents for marriage or stressful situations at job scenario.

Before the call gets over, there is another person waiting to sobb!!

So, it is continuous crying on phone!!

Though it is making you to smile, the situation is grave that their parents are not understanding them and their life situation, adding more fuel to the fire!!...So, they land up in throwing all the feelings, emotions, frustrations on Free Garbage Disposal Bins like us!!

So, parents...please understand that...1. school life has become tough from age 5....2. College life has become tough with both studies and socialization issues....3. work life is also tough with time lines for targets amidst the socialization issues...4. personal life has become challenging with more aims, goals, passions to be achieved/fulfilled. So, their life is continuously stressful intellectually, emotionally, physically, mentally and socially!!

This is the time when parents need to be considerate, patiently listening, caring and supporting them, relieving their stresses through counselling, positive parenting methods...This is the time for parents to show their maturity and the wisdom and personality traits they achieved through their life long learning.

Whereas parents talk and behave in a way the TV serial characters behave and talk...without any trust and full of suspicion!!....The real culprits are not parents, but the self interested marriage brokers, relatives and jobless people who have vested interests or jealous/ pervert/crooked. These are the enemies who actually spoil the peace and harmony in families.

So, parents need to wake up and support their children...else...nothing is in anyone's hands...parents will learn the costliest and hardest grave lesson in their life!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!