It is important and worth to suffer or fail in small things earlier in life than big things later in life!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

1. When we suffer we learn lessons of life. We get enlightened. So many revelations occur in us about sooo many things. we get answers for sooo many questions in life from our own brain and mind. Some of the learning, wisdom etc we can not understand or accept when others explain from their own experience or experience of others, unless we ourselves get affected by ths stimulus, undergo the process of suffering, come out with resilience...i.e unless we ourselves experience all the processes of the suffering. So, nothing wrong in willfully undergoing small sufferings in life which does not cost us much or does not result in much of losses, or losses that we can bear with, to learn things which we can't learn in classrooms and from others. Therefore, we need to come out of certain comforts some times to learn, grow, mature and evolve.

2. Failures teach more lessons and give us more positives in real terms in several dimensions than successes. So, it is very important to undergo certain mild, less-loss, little failures in life to become a good and true-successful human being!!

Those who have not suffered or failed probably can not get self actualized or enlightened or become a whole, good human being!!

So, therefore, let us come out of our comfort zones once in a while to suffer...to fail...on small things in living to get big things of life!!

Peacefully yours....Rams....Psychologist!!