THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS, NEWLY MARRIED AND PARENTS...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS, NEWLY MARRIED AND PARENTS...

Immediately after marriage, both the boy and girl should live together separately at least for about 2 to 3 years...without the intervention of both the parents...to know their routines, likes and dislikes, expectations from their own selves and others, social traits, positive, negative and neutral personality traits etc.

Only when they care for each other, support each other, face the challenges together, with only the physical, emotional and financial support of the other, learn from each other...like this sooo many...only then they become husband and wife, good friends, good life mates....they will know each other better...just being married and living separately, or with the support of parents to face all the challenges, will not help them to make the bonding required, understanding required etc.

These create good memories, positive bonding which will make them look back when they are disturbed, the relationship is strained, and make them to get united inspite of the growing differences, likes and dislikes, interests, needs and expectations unfulfilled etc...

So, youngsters should not allow their parents to interfere in any manner and parents also should be matured enough not to disturb or advice or suggest or be any part of their life, without their request or intervention.

Peacefully yours....rams....Psychologist!!