How to be successful in love?..how to get the best lover?..How to get the best wife?...How to get the best husband?..How to get the best friend?

Dear all....THIS IS FOR ALL...our culture, our parents...hmm...

Enough of running and being anxiety struck to make our life and the life of our children...SUCCESSFUL!!

When we groom the children to be SUCCESSFUL, then we are bull headed, push back the morals, ethics and values, make the children animals, in-human, 'anyhow-you have to win attitude', teach a wrong way of personal life, family life, marriage, not making them an adaptable loving human being which is the basic for making good relationships everywhere!!...End result is we create children who are not peaceful, not happy, not physically healthy, not mentally healthy, not socially healthy, not successful in marriages, not successful in family life, not successful in social life, not successful in organisations also...not contented, not fulfilled, not self actualised, not self transcending people!!

Instead, let us groom them to be GOOD HUMAN BEINGS WHO ARE "HEALTHY"..."PEACEFUL"..."PHYSICALLY STRONG"..."MENTALLY STRONG"..."SOCIALLY STRONG"...so that they are able to make good family, good relationships, become good parents, good brothers, good sisters, good friends, good subordinate, good boss, good citizen, good son, good daughter, good societies, good communities, good teams, good groups....OBVIOUSLY THEY WILL BECOME SUCCESSFUL TOO!!...Along with contentment, fulfillment, self actualisation and self transcending life!!

Otherwise the father and mother are likely to give injections to their children, run for cancer treatments, serve them plateful of tablets instead of food, have the great opportunity of seeing their son or daughter lonely on this earth with depression, suicidal attempts etc, and may be dead too!!

So, let us perceive life correctly and groom the children!!...Let the off-springs do not become half-springs!

So, the crux is...More than IQ, EQ and SQ are important in life...there are sooooo many successful people in life who have less IQ but hace achieved success through high EQ and SQ ...after all success if a relative term!!...It means different for different people!!...Of course, correct understanding of the word 'Spiritual Quotient' is very very important...i define it as the "intelligence that makes the person to keep himself calm, cool, focused, mentally strong, positive radiant, stable and able to make bold, strong and positive decisions even under the worst of the worst conditions and situations of life in all dimensions'...!!

so...so...so...groom children not for success, but to be peaceful, happy and healthy!!....(not lazy, complacent...)

Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist!!