THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS AND PARENTS...MAINLY FOR STUDENTS...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL STUDENTS AND PARENTS...MAINLY FOR STUDENTS...

Every one is not same. Everyone is different. Every one's personality attributes are formed due to heredity and the challenges they face physically or mentally or socially during the process of growing up from childhood, at home, at schools, colleges or society...the way they tackled them...the lessons they learnt....the perceptions the formed about people, about our culture, about our society, about relationships etc...all these make what they are today and what they will be tomorrow!!

Some are calm people who do not get agitated by things that happen around them at home, at schools, colleges, organisations, media and society. Some get aroused, agitated, and define their life to fight against the social evils, wrongs, etc.

So, we have some parents, adults, elders who are social activists. Who fight for the people. Who want to reform the country, societies, social processes, change the culture etc. Their personalities have formed due to their growth processes and perceptions. This also makes their family life, social life, personal life, beliefs different. The people who join with them in marriage or relationships also have to understand this and change...be adaptable.

They also make, groom their children either like them or make them the opposite or keep them somewhere in between these two extremes. There are parents who are soft and self centric but their children may be activists or society centric in their life, thoughts and feelings. All combinations possible.

Depending upon the personality traits formed, our body, mind and relationships will either suffer (with diseases, ailments, malfunctions, stresses and strains) or flourish or remain somewhere in between these two extremes. We have to accept it. Or put in efforts to change ourselves. It is possible because all these personality traits are learnt thoughts, feelings and behaviours which can be easily unlearnt, and new learning that gives us and others around, peace, happiness, good health and success in all domains of life.

ok...now coming to the point...

Today all the TV channels belong to political parties or organisations which are biased, self centric and profit motivated. Even the channels based on investigative journalism also bias and direct their investigations towards specific self centric objectives. So, nothing can be believed 100%. Only percentage of truth and false varies.

If you want reforms, if you want to change the society, if you want to change the government machineries, if you want to do anything positive...don’t involve straightaway, affecting your studies...you will be put behind the bars. You will remain to be a ‘worker’ and fighting against the age old system as the worker at the bottom is difficult.

So, calm yourself...study well...put in hard work, and get good job wherein you become a part of, policy making level, decision maker in governance of the state or country...Now you start working towards cleaning the system by way of your policies, with love and affection...this is the right and positive way....

By doing this you can live on your own, you can look after your family, your parents-teachers and relatives will be happy and proud of you. You will also get all your dreams fulfilled. You can also get a life mate of your choice. But if you agitate yourself by looking at the news channels, tv serials etc during adolescent innocent stage in life and go against the system around, you are likely to get penalised, likely to get used by these self centric people, parties and organisations. Because self centric people do not directly involve and do illegal things. They only use such agitated, weak people. The purpose of agitating and emotionalising people is only that.

So, the crux is...don’t get agitated by things around. What you see in tv or read in news media are not 100% correct, they are all manipulated news for self centric objectives, only %age differs. Make positive perceptions, put in hard work in studies, become a decision and policy maker, change the system. This is the right method in which everyone will be happy ultimately including you!!

Don't use your emotions...use your intelligence!!

Peacefully yours...rams...psychologist!!