THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO WANT LOVERS...LOTS OF LOVERS...!!...WHO FEEL THAT THEY DON'T HAVE LOVERS AND NO ONE LOVES THEM!!...PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN FACING BREAK-UPS IN LOVE!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO WANT LOVERS...LOTS OF LOVERS...!!...WHO FEEL THAT THEY DON'T HAVE LOVERS AND NO ONE LOVES THEM!!...PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN FACING BREAK-UPS IN LOVE!!

Qn. What is love?...Is it wrong?...Why people say ‘falling’ in love?

Ans:

Truly...love means...'caring unconditionally'...that is all...all other definitions of love are wrong...they are wrong because they cannot bring long term peace, happiness, good health and self actualisation to both the people concerned...few spells of pleasure here and there, now and then, is not permanent peace, happiness and good health!!

People who say 'love means both sadness and happiness' do not know the right definition or understanding of love!!

Word 'falling in love' is incorrect...where is falling in this??...how can we say that 'caring unconditionally' is wrong and falling etc.

Filmy love of getting aroused and attracted towards a six pack youngster or shapy, curvy, fair, girl is not love... society defines 'love' differently...negatively...so they don't accept it...and therefore, they think it is 'falling' in life and therefore they say ‘falling in love’!!

Some people also say ‘falling’ means ‘falling of all negative things in us when we are in love with a person’...As long as a love relationship makes us ‘good living organisms’ then it is good and right only...(who is a good living organism?...read my blog posts!)

There is no living organism which cannot or does not love a source of unconditional love!...Period!!!!!

So any person will like and love the source of 'unconditional love'...who is showing the right definition of love, not through words, but by deeds...you might also love that source of unconditional love conditionally or unconditionally...if you are conditional then you will suffer...if you are unconditional then you will not suffer...that is all!!

So, those who feel ‘no one loves me!’...’there is no lover for me!’...should know what is love...if they are ready to give ‘unconditional caring’ for someone for life time, then the whole earth of living organisms will love them!!

Lion, tiger and allllllllllllllllllll wild animals can be tamed....with unconditional love!!...because ..because...every living organism needs love and affection, caring, for living peacefully, happily and healthily....period!!

So, the crux is...

1. Love is in abundance on this earth...everyone on this earth can love you!!

2. If we don’t have a lover, it is not due to others, it is due to us.

3. If your love is a failure, then the fault is there in you, not with the other person.

4. If you go to a person for your ‘needs, wants and expectations’ ...feeling of goodness of pleasure...then it is not love, it is an emotional business...’i will give this, you give me that’ type...so, businesses can fail, collapse, go in loss or give gains or profits for some time etc...When we love a person...i.e caring unconditionally...for getting feeling of goodness of happiness or what we call as anandha...then it is not business...so, it cannot fail to give that feeling of goodness!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!