Our pains, agonies and spoiled relationships are due to our own wrong understanding of certain words...wrong perceptions...wrong learning from people and society around...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

"My language is the best!!"

1. How many global languages you know?
2. How much qualified you are in your language?
3. What is your contribution for the growth or spread of the language?
4. Why don't you learn all the popular global languages, translate the best books of your language, so that people of other country also read and say that your language is the best?
5. We should not say 'i am beautiful...i am the best...'...others have to say...what have you done to make others say that your language is the best.

This holds good for many...

"our culture is the best!"

1. How many global cultures you have seen, experienced and lived with them?

2. How many countries you have visited as a TRAVELER? (not tourist)

3. How many people of your culture are living peacefully without diseases of the body and mind?

We need to understand the words clearly...our wrong perceptions of these words only is the major agony and pain in our lives...people who visit psychological counselors go inside with pain...come out free...has the counselor met their needs?...No!!...He or she only has defined things correctly and brought some clarity in their perceptions, beliefs, thoughts and feelings!!...If we understand the following correctly then no pain and no spending of money for psychiatrists and psychologists...

1. What is love?
2. What is a language?
3. What is a culture?
4. What are relationships?
5. What is priority in life?
6. What is marriage?
7. What is patriotism?
8. What is a family?

because we have defined them selfishly, male chauvinistically, pleasure based, body based, obsessionally...we suffer!! ...and do not allow others also to live peacefully!!

If your definition of the above keeps you peaceful, happy, physically-mentally and socially healthy, makes you radiate all these to others, allows you to leave others also to live with all these, does not make you hate others, makes you to love every one unconditionally ...then your definitions are right...otherwise they are wrong!!...Your own definitions and beliefs are going to kill you!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!