Friday, 21 August 2015

How to be likable and loveable by all?

Hai all...look at the pics below...

i had a good time with these children two days back...now is the analysis time...

Do these children appear beautiful?

I am sure you will say "yes"!

(What makes them beautiful?...Is it their appearance...skin colour?...dress?...religious or caste symbols?...youthfulness?....)

if yes, then if they are not smiling then will they be beautiful?

ok, that means their smile makes them beautiful...there are few kids who are also smiling but not that heart catchy beautiful...Is it not?

So, that means heart out smile is beautiful and not lip-smile!

They are also cute...but what makes them cute?

You might tend to answer 'anything that is small and any one who is infant or young is cute'...but even old people also appear cute when they smile...generally the cuteness is perceived through the behaviours and not in stillness...so, it is the beahaviour that makes them cute and not the appearance...which behaviour?...heart-out smiles!!

So, beauty and cuteness comes through heart out smiles!

When does one get heart-out smiles?...when he is in the present and enjoys it thoroughly...when he enjoys something truly...when they laugh or smile truly...when their minds are blank....when one is not stressed and anxiety struck...when they are not suspecting or judging the other person in front...otherwise no smile can be beautiful and cute...it can only be a 'smiling gas' induced smile!!

this is called innocence!!...a form of godliness, true human nature, radiating peace, happiness and good health...true love...healing behaviour...

this heart out smile comes when we are INNOCENT!!...which we have when we are young, but, as we grow, as we are taught and groomed by our parents and society, we slowly lose it...

but some have it later too in their life...they are not polluted by their learning...

these people remain innocent throughout their life...they are cute always...they are beautiful always...they are always liked by all...they are lovable...they radiate peace and happiness...they are divine and godly...physical appearance is of no relevance...youthfulness is of no relevance...religion or caste has no relevance...physical disability has no relevance...they will radiate all these positives to people around...their behaviours will teach us many things about life, spirituality etc...it is contagious...

one becomes innocent when he or she formats the mind...throws away the ego...

this ability can be achieved by being spiritual...by attaching ourselves to nature, those give unconditional love (including animals like dogs), through yoga, meditation and other physical exercises...

so....

1. Let us be innocent always through out our life...
2. parents to ensure that their bringing up does not spoil the innocence...
3. we need not be always alert and judging. Intelligence at the required times keeps us safe and innocent too
i can go onnnnnnnnn typing like this about innocence...but it is time for my dinner...so byeeeeeee....will type more on innocence some time later....

peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist!!

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