Privacy...is it required?

Hai all...Privacy!!!...Is it a right??

Today most of the people want privacy. Time that is privately for them to pursue relationships, passion, hobby etc apart from their routine chores, organizational jobs, social or relationship dynamics at home-organisations-society.

During this time they don’t want any interruptions. So, they don’t want anyone, any job, any chores, any routine life event, etc to disturb them during this time…or disturb them in getting this private time…they don’t want any to sneak in to their privacy…this includes even their lovers, husbands or wives or children etc…

This was not the case in the past…during earlier days when internet had not intruded the lives, when awareness was less, media had not penetrated our lives the definition of life was

1.there is no privacy between husband and wife

2. Lover is a banned relationship

3. Married people cannot have any emotional relationship with the opposite sex outside their family

4. Privacy is only between couple and others (not between the couples)…during such times the emotional and social dynamics of a person was confined within four walls and with their spouse and children only…or at the maximum between the siblings and close relatives…

Even if someone had the need for privacy there was no liberty to demand for privacy…it was an unheard off or considered a funny or illegitimate need…

So, today people need people and relationships only when they need…also the expression of thoughts, emotions, feelings or behaviours are by several methods of communication…i.e voice, video, skype, face-to-face, mobile sms, chats, emails etc…every one prefers only a particular mode of communication at a particular time in life or day…

also every one experiences and expresses a particular level of emotions or feelings at any time which they can express only in their own methods convenient to them…also everyone has many people for them to share their thoughts, feelings, opinions, emotions etc…

so, the definition of family will change…

the definition of privacy or channels of social communication, relationships etc will change….the concept of living inside four walls and one roof will change…husband and wife can live separately…kids can live anywhere…this is also called a home and family living…

We have to understand this…accept this…and live with this…find our own methods of happiness, peace, good health etc…

Culture is not defined within four walls and under one roof or by one or two people…it is defined outside the homes, by the society and world community…

change is a continuous process…

those who change live…those who do not change get isolated and find their death.

peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist...