Hai all...
there are many on this earth who do not have mom and even if mom is or was present they did not get all that a mom has to give to her child so that it grows in to well developed human being...there are soooooooooo many of them...in fact most of the people with behavioural disorders have got them because they did not get all the love and affection and the nurturing grooming which they are supposed to get from their moms...so, such people get attached to some one or something which or who gives all that a mom gives. So, mom plays a crucial role in even one's lives...but unfortunately our mom's don't know the 'developmental tasks' required for a child to grow during the initial formative, growing and maturing years from birth to 20 years. So, the life of many is screwed up and they are not well developed.
Those who are interested in knowing these 'developmental tasks', please read text books on Life Span Psychology, which list down the developmental tasks...if a child is helped, exposed and groomed with these then it is most likely to develop in to a fully grown and matured human being...is less likely to have behavioural problems...why i am using the word 'most likely' because of other variables which are not under the control of mom...
if some one is interested you can contact me, i will give the e book on this subject...or you can download from the website of universities which upload their e books on their website like IGNOU...
peacefully yours....rams...health psychologist...
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