don't waste your time and life looking at, judging, evaluating, assessing others and their relationship with us...let us look ourselves for improvement!!

very true...if we keep looking at others as to what they are doing (negatively), talking about others, always observing the movements, behaviours, feelings, emotions of others, perceiving something, doing same thing with our relationships...then...then...then...we will remain where we are in life!!...there will be no improvement!!...we will only go back in health, happiness and peace. Our relationships also will weaken and vanish. Our social health will be spoiled and weak. Instead, if we look at ourselves, set long term goals, convert them into short term achievable goals, evaluate each day where we stand, what we have done on that day towards moving to our goals, what are the corrective steps to be applied, etc...every day we will improve in our knowledge, skills, competency levels, wisdom, experience etc. We will achieve our goals. We will become rich, wealthy, powerful, strong, famous, motivators, achievers also.

So, let us not look others...let us not look at our relationships with others...let us look at ourselves...let us monitor and watch ourselves...let us improve...let us move up...let us be happy, healthy, peaceful, contented and self actualised. Every one will automatically follow us. Every one will look at us. Every one will judge, evaluate us and improve too!!

peacefully yours....rams!!