one question...one doubt...see if you can answer and clear my doubt!!

Dear all...one question...one doubt...see if you can answer and clear my doubt!!

There is a table and two guys are sitting next to each other. They both like laddu very much. I kept the laddu they like. The smart boy instantly took away and ate that laddu same time. Obviously the other guy got angry and started fighting with him!!

now the next situation...

Both of them like a girl very much. They call it as love. I kept that girl on the table. The smart boy again instantly took away. Now she is brought back to the table and she is there as a whole. Again both are fighting!!

In the previous case the laddu got eaten away and not there on the table. In the second case it is there. Why then they are fighting and issue becomes complex when laddu is replaced by a girl??

Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy???

of course, in the above example we can replace the laddu with a boy and boys can be replaced with girls!!

(the question might appear nasty but in reality this is what is screwing up the minds and lives of many!!)

rams