'intense feelings' is good...but being spiritual while being intensive is best....!!

Dear all...

All our people get attracted to a person (male or female), fall in love, and experience 'intense feelings' in that relationship. This is like a pleasure well. You will suffer a lot. You will cry a lot. You will plead a lot. You will crave a lot. You will have a big list of expectations, wants, needs etc. The suffering will be more if the needs etc are not met and the person is far away from you. You will get a feeling of happiness sometimes. But it is not happiness. It is a kind of pleasure. Because it will vanish in no time and again you will be craving, crying, obsessive etc.

Intense feelings need not just be on a person but could be in our passion, hobby and other interests too. It results in several positives like creativity, poetry, novel and drama writing. All art forms get born out of intense feelings on art forms, life, nature, god, a person (living, dead or imaginary). But these positives should not be born out of health compromising behaviours (e.g consuming liquor, smoking, eating non veg, drug addiction etc). Also these intense feelings, on whatsoever they may be, should not remove our long term peace, happiness, good social-mental-physical health, contentment and self actualisation. In fact intense feelings should provide these things to us. If not then there is a danger!!...This means they are becoming harmful to us. We need to come out of it!!

so, live intensely...love intensely...read intensely...play intensely...work intensely...paint intensely...write intensely...dance intensely...whatever you do, do it intensely!!... intensity comes to us when we answer our calling in life and be with the love of our life!!....living intensely is good...also living 'spiritually while being intensely' is safe for peace, happiness, health etc....i.e living intensely while being detached in the attachment...without expectations, needs and wants...perceiving everything for our own improvement of self concept, self esteem etc...!!

intense feelings will take you to the negative too sometimes. but we should come out of the negativity sooner as it is not good to wallow there.

spiritually while being intense is the best option.

peacefully yours....rams...health psychologist!!