THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAD BREAK-UPs IN LOVE.

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAD BREAK-UPs IN LOVE....once we are born here we have default relationships and as we grow we create many relationships...some can be defined...few undefined too...

Almost every one blames the other person in the relationship when they suffer or feel sad or feel frustrated or feel missing, etc...

We like some people...we get attracted towards them...we feel what we feel...so, everything takes place inside us...in our brain...in our heart...all due to our own brain, endocrine system and the state of our body, mind, heart etc...

we are the main reason and the other person only adds flavour or oxygen or more fuel to the fire!!

Without our acceptance, without our brain having the mood to love them, without our brain perceiving love, without our heart asking for that person we can not fall in love with any one!!!!!!

There are many cases wherein a person is known to us for many years and we have never felt love with them, but suddenly one fine morning a spark or lightening occurs in our brain or heart towards that person, and then the love story or journey or history or era or saga begins!!

This proves that love ('all kaathals and kathharikkaais') emanates or springs and starts with us and remains with us for ever till end of life (if we truly love that person beyond all needs, wants, expectations, friendship etc) and it has nothing to do with the other person, their behaviours, their emotions, their feelings towards us!!!!!

so, actually all relationships we have are all in our mind and heart...not in that person...or that person's relationship with us...their's is just a flavour...but main food is with us...so we never miss any one when we love that person truly beyond everything....whether they leave us or become God...!!!

So, the crux is...

NO LOVE...NO PERSON...NO RELATIONSHIP....IS NEVER LOST WHEN WE LOVE THAT PERSON TRULY AND POSITIVELY BEYOND THE BARRIERS!!

peacefully yours...rams!!