Is it possible to walk on the same road with the spouse and still reach a different destination?

Hai all...

During the early days of marriage the physical needs makes us to forget the differences and remain together and walk the life in the same road.

But as days pass by both change slowly, steadily, without our knowledge. If they don't remain on the same road then they slowly drift and go in two different roads and reach a state of no commonness and no junction of meeting or mating.

So, it becomes two different people living like aliens in the same house...Living the life for the society sake!!! If there were differences even earlier then living for children-sake!!

so, like people joining together is important and also changing and walking on the same different road is important for life long intimate companionship.

However much variety we try to bring in the physical needs is of no use as the physical needs itself vanishes after some time...evolving to just the hai-helo touches...

but mind is the strongest one which can keep the relationships together and keep the mental intimacy going strong leading to life long physical intimacy too...intellect, wisdom, art forms, creativity, science, nature etc are common platforms of knowledge sharing or interesting roads to walk together endlessly without getting tired...

happily yours...rams...health psychologist...