Hai all...
in my opinion the first thing and the best thing that parent can give a child is ....giving a social environment in which the child feels 'My parents are the best people on earth, my soul-mates, in-comparable, that i can talk to them, discuss with them, clarify all my doubts, seek their suggestion for my confusions, approach them for clarity to clear the murky mind, to help me to take decisions in life...any time anything under the sky without any inhibition!!'...including about LOVE and SEX...about which all parents feel shy, can never talk to their children, and all the time worried about these two that they should not happen to their children!!...or should happen safely!!...many remain anxiety struck, with heart in their mouth, mind in their hearts all the time!!!
in my opinion the first thing and the best thing that parent can give a child is ....giving a social environment in which the child feels 'My parents are the best people on earth, my soul-mates, in-comparable, that i can talk to them, discuss with them, clarify all my doubts, seek their suggestion for my confusions, approach them for clarity to clear the murky mind, to help me to take decisions in life...any time anything under the sky without any inhibition!!'...including about LOVE and SEX...about which all parents feel shy, can never talk to their children, and all the time worried about these two that they should not happen to their children!!...or should happen safely!!...many remain anxiety struck, with heart in their mouth, mind in their hearts all the time!!!
Has our Indian culture helped to create this social environment between the parents and children?
'spare the rod, spoil the child!'...'adi uthavaatha maathiri annan thambi kooda uthava maattan!' (i.e even the brothers can not help like the way a kick helps...or nothing can match in help when compared to a kick on the back (pl don't laugh at my English translation)...'adiyaatha maadu padiyaathu!' (no child will listen unless it gets a two at the back!!)...Can all these produce that feeling in the minds of our children?
Have your parents given that feeling to you?
Have you given this feeling to your children?
Do you feel this social environment is necessary?
Do you think that our Indian culture we follow now our parents followed can give this?
It is never too late...
Throw that rod away from your hands and mouth...take LOVE flower instead!!
Hug the child, break the walls you have created all these years...and create that garden at least now...before it becomes really really too late!!
socially yours....rams...health psychologist...
'spare the rod, spoil the child!'...'adi uthavaatha maathiri annan thambi kooda uthava maattan!' (i.e even the brothers can not help like the way a kick helps...or nothing can match in help when compared to a kick on the back (pl don't laugh at my English translation)...'adiyaatha maadu padiyaathu!' (no child will listen unless it gets a two at the back!!)...Can all these produce that feeling in the minds of our children?
Have your parents given that feeling to you?
Have you given this feeling to your children?
Do you feel this social environment is necessary?
Do you think that our Indian culture we follow now our parents followed can give this?
It is never too late...
Throw that rod away from your hands and mouth...take LOVE flower instead!!
Hug the child, break the walls you have created all these years...and create that garden at least now...before it becomes really really too late!!
socially yours....rams...health psychologist...
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