The role of 'heart' and 'brain' in relationships!

Hai all...

every one likes a cute kid...it is cute because it is innocent...so innocence is liked by all...so, if we want others to like us then we should be innocent...i.e no evil thinking...being straight forward in a pleasant manner...being simple...being happy...being peaceful...being approachable...being noble...being with empty heart and mind...accepting people and life situations as they are...assuming all are good...not judging or suspecting others...i.e living with heart...associating ourselves with others with our heart...moment we associate ourselves with the brains then the evils learnt start working...the innocence is lost...cuteness is lost...people go away...relationships fail...or just remain for the society sake...without the connectivity from the inner-self or soul...

so relationships are better when they are made of heart (i.e innocence and cuteness)...it is beautiful to see two cute kids in a relationship...two innocent cute people in a relationship....
may be we can use brains initially when the relationship is in the liquid form so that we do not get cheated or exploited...but once the relationship is formed then brains can be kept away and hearts can be kept in front to make the relationship beautiful and long lasting!!

or at times both people together can migrate to brains depending upon the life situation or issue in front of them and return back to heart later......but never one on one and the other on the other!!
also never only brain in front always...a relationship without heart in it can never succeed, forget about being beautiful!!

innocently yours...rams...health psychologist!!