Hai all...
we have two beautiful words....HAPPINESS...PLEASURE...
Pleasure is short lived. e.g monthly salary, physical needs, liquor effect, promotion, abroad trip etc. When we feel pleasure we feel satisfied and happy. But after some time we again want it. As it is external we look for that source of pleasure again and again.
Whereas Happiness is relatively permanent and internal.
we have two beautiful words....HAPPINESS...PLEASURE...
Pleasure is short lived. e.g monthly salary, physical needs, liquor effect, promotion, abroad trip etc. When we feel pleasure we feel satisfied and happy. But after some time we again want it. As it is external we look for that source of pleasure again and again.
Whereas Happiness is relatively permanent and internal.
The source of pleasure can be permanent to become a source of happiness.
e.g if we get a rarest of the rare bird whose flesh when tender is the tastiest on earth, the choice is either to kill the bird and eat it or keep it and enjoy feeding it, playing with it, enjoying each and every moment of its behaviours with its children etc. If we eat we get only a momentary pleasure and it is gone. But the second one gives the longest possible happiness.
Similarly it is rarest of the rare to get good human beings to day. In future it will become more and more difficult to find good human beings as the survival due to cut throat competition will make every one selfish.
The explosive and widely and wildly expanding social networking will also make the relationships so fragile and superficial. Most of them will die as acquaintances only and may not even graduate to a relationship.
So, GOOD HUMAN BEINGS and RELATIONSHIPS will become rarest of the rare gifted treasures. And if some one finds one It would be too foolish to kill that person and eat off the relationship too by exploiting, cheating, demanding, controlling, expecting, suspecting, obsessively possessive, suffocatingly torturous etc for the short lived pleasure. Instead if these two are nurtured, cherished, groomed giving importance and priority then the happiness remains for life time.
peacefully yours....rams
e.g if we get a rarest of the rare bird whose flesh when tender is the tastiest on earth, the choice is either to kill the bird and eat it or keep it and enjoy feeding it, playing with it, enjoying each and every moment of its behaviours with its children etc. If we eat we get only a momentary pleasure and it is gone. But the second one gives the longest possible happiness.
Similarly it is rarest of the rare to get good human beings to day. In future it will become more and more difficult to find good human beings as the survival due to cut throat competition will make every one selfish.
The explosive and widely and wildly expanding social networking will also make the relationships so fragile and superficial. Most of them will die as acquaintances only and may not even graduate to a relationship.
So, GOOD HUMAN BEINGS and RELATIONSHIPS will become rarest of the rare gifted treasures. And if some one finds one It would be too foolish to kill that person and eat off the relationship too by exploiting, cheating, demanding, controlling, expecting, suspecting, obsessively possessive, suffocatingly torturous etc for the short lived pleasure. Instead if these two are nurtured, cherished, groomed giving importance and priority then the happiness remains for life time.
peacefully yours....rams
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