What makes us to do this repeatedly again and again and remain in sadness!!

Dear all...What makes?...What makes?...What makes??...

We go to school or college or office or a city to study/work/live. Meet another boy or girl or person or family. We start with 'hai' and start conversing with that person/people in that family. Without our knowledge we start liking that person/family. We start exchanging many things with that person or family...like, time, money, energy, emotions, food, clothes, house space, utensils, vehicles etc.

In the case of families, all the family members on both sides from 80s to 10s pick up their friendships and become thick and close.

There comes a day that we have to change the school or schooling is over. College is over. Job transfer!...we move to another school, college, city etc. We never imagined that day or separation when we started the relationship. It was an innocent relationship that started with a 'hai' and we became thick and this sudden movement strikes like a sword. We realise that 'we can not miss that person or family!'. Some times it strikes that it is impossible to live without that person or family. It could be one-sided or from both sides.

If it is a school or college or office friendship, we tend to shift to the same school or college or course or job or city to which our friend goes. This is possible for individuals, but not for families. As one family can not go behind the other family due to sooo many reasons.

Of course, we miss them for some time, but later the new friendships, new families nearby attract us and we start making new relationships.

Here too most of us forget that one day...that Sword Day, the Black Day, will come and we have to separate. We again innocently fall in friendship or love with others and move to another place!!

Some students or employees chase their friend, get married and get united for life time. Some realise after some time, after seeing many friendships, that 'that so and so' is the person who is haunting my mind all the time and it is impossible to live without that person, irrespective of how many friends i have or not, they leave everything and reach that friend and live together for life time (provided that friend also feels the same and available alone!).

Many miss out all and look back after some years and feel 'Hmmmm, i missed that person in my life!'...'where is that person now?...How she or he is?...or how that family is?...Where are they?...What they are doing or their children are doing?...Will we meet ever?...Is it possible to find out their location?...If we locate also how the other person or family will feel?...Will they have the same feeling towards me or us?'

Now coming back to the analysis...What makes us to fall in love or in friendship with people or families without realising that one day we have to separate due to several reasons?...Why do we repeatedly do that same mistake again and again knowing (or not knowing?) that one day we have to separate?...Is it possible to put the fencing with good noble people/ families in relationships?...and this happens irrespective of our age from childhood to even late adult hood (>80s).

What makes?...What makes??...What makes????