A MUST READ FOR ALL GIRLS BETWEEN AGE 8 TO 80!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL GIRLS FROM AGE 8 TO 80!!

If you take any girl above 40 years in this country she will have many unaccomplished goals, ambitions, passion, hobbies and liking.

Why they are in this state?...Why they have a crying bird inside their mind?...How did this "Learned Helplessness" crying bird go inside their heart?

Every girl in this country is tooooooo good!!...They have great power, ability to work hard, skills to take any levels of stress-physical,mental,social and emotional, multitasking talent, handle many people simultaneously, undertaking challenges at home-office and society and high moral values and ethics.

Then why they land up in side the cages?

There are only three people responsible for this!!

1. Parents
2. In-Laws
3. Husband

Parents are the best motivation and inspiration till marriage and Marriage is the first stumbling block in the case of many girls, which has not happened in a way to continue flying in their fantasy world to create great realities!!....The traditional husbands and in-laws came as the barriers and even the parents could not do anything other than telling their daughters 'See maa, we have done our duty. Henceforth, your husband and in-laws are your world and you do whatever they say. We can not interfere in your internal affairs as it would only worsen the situation!'...When their husbands were good otherwise, they felt it is their destiny and accepted their husband as he is and the in-laws as they are!!....So, they got locked in all directions and became crying birds inside. They thought 'My life only has become like this. Let my daughters at least achieve their goals!'...Some could make it. But some could not and are still getting succumbed to the culture, relatives and society.

So, girls from age 8 to 80.....please do the following....

1. Keep your goals, aims, ambitions, passion, etc clear.

2. Define and explain to your parents clearly.

3. Let them or you find boys and his parents who will support your dreams.

4. Let there not be any compromises and sacrifices in this front.

5. Let everything like marriage, family, job, friends, husband, in-laws, parents etc fall around your dreams, with dreams as the center and fulcrum, and let your dreams not fall because of these.

6. Don't resist or fight against, but have patience-love and affection, tell them, teach them, expose them, make them aware things around, explain, expose, prove yourself with your accomplishments in the present. If wild animals can be tamed and made domestic animals, all these human beings are nothing in front of LOVE (CARING). They have only FEARS and need LOVE and WEALTH/MONEY. Remove fears and give them love, money and wealth in abundance! They will listen to you!!...Let you be the CHANGE AGENT of your family history/progeny!!

7. All parents are in-laws and all in-laws are parents. Better support your girls or be ready to become orphans at old age, because only girls will stand beside to nurse you during the last years of life, while the boys are busy winning the power, fame, authority, promotions, money, wealth in their 40s/50s in their last leg of their life-run!!

All the best girls!!

Peacefully yours....rams...health psychologist!!