'calculating worth of people and relationships as money or wealth or other benefits will make us lose them one day.Instead we need to look at them in entirety for their overall VALUE in our life in terms of peace, happiness and good health.Then we will have them and their relationship throughout our life"

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

Though our country had lots of wisdom of life and living few thousand years back that protected the peace, happiness and health of people, subsequent changes in social systems resulted in people running behind money and wealth as they thought they can get anything and everything on this earth. They used the money and wealth for bringing status, power, authority and difference between others and themselves to satisfy their ego.

So, in this country every one from educated to uneducated, poor to rich, powerful to powerless, people in any attire, are running behind money and wealth madly, losing their body and mind which are their sole properties!

This has resulted in CALCULATING THE WORTH OF PEOPLE, RELATIONSHIPS, SERVICES, KIND GESTURES, HELPS, HUMANITY etc in the form of money!...We calculate the worth of a person by how much money or material benefits or services that he can give to us which can be converted into money or wealth by us. This holds good in relationships too. Any big or important help or selfless service rendered by our people around also is converted into money value by our brain and returned in same money or kind. This is what has been taught by our parents, grandparents and forefathers!!....Sadddddddddddddd!!

The end result is we only get SHORT LIVED PLEASURES, lose the people and relationships. We might get some new friends from whom again we might calculate monetary benefits. But the truth is we will never get the true happiness, love and affection and long lived relationships and people. Even in marriages our calculations of monetary gains/losses are more than the VALUE of people and their overall worth in life for peace, happiness, health, companionship, love and affection.

AS LONG AS WE CALCULATE THE WORTH OF PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS BY MONETARY OR MATERIAL VALUE WE WILL NOT GET LOVE AND AFFECTION FROM THEM AND PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS WILL NOT LAST FOR LIFE TIME AND WE WILL BE LEFT LONELY WITHOUT PEACE, CONTENTMENT, FULFILLMENT AND A DEEP VOID WILL ALWAYS EXIST AND KILL US!!

So, the crux is...

We need to come out of this culture of calculating the worth of people and relationships as money. We need to see the VALUE of the people and relationships in our life in entirety in terms of total peace, happiness, good health though which we can earn our money or wealth by our own selves.

peacefully yours...rams...