THIS IS FOR ALL COLLEGE STUDENTS....

Dear all...by costing or quantifying the value of some people and relationships will only make us lose those people and relationships, not perceive abundant peace and happiness, as they are invaluable in our life!!

Peacefully yours...rams...

Dear all...THIS IS MAINLY FOR COLLEGE STUDENTS...

Most of the issues related to college students are related to RELATIONSHIPS...

So, thought give some facts and truths of relationships...

1. Any relationship that is based on pleasure, needs, wants etc will remain only for short time, even in marriage relationship!

2. In a marriage relationship at the most can get converted into relationship of commitment.

3. Any relationship that is based on improving the other person's life without any expectations will remain for life time. i.e UNCONDITIONAL FLOURISHING RELATIONSHIP.

4. A devotee relationship where one loves the other person beyond needs and wants, meets all the needs of the other, devotes the entire life for the other person, will also live for life time (there may not be the element of 'FLOURISHING' in this)

5. TIME and PATIENCE are the two things that can bring in love or patch up the strained or broken relationships. Because life is dynamic. Evverything changes!! Body, mind, needs, wants, internal body functioning, life situations, life events, family, people around, climate, place of living, job situations...NOTHING IS STATIC!!...So, we need to have lots of patience to use positive methods and wait giving the other person the TIME.

6. Relationships should be Natural and Love and Caring has to be Natural, from within. If manipulated to attract or keep a person in life, then it breaks.

7. Evvery relationship becomes a 'curd rice' after time, may not break, remain committed too, but it just remains there!!...Of course, spicing up is possible if both take interest.

8. Today every one has ocean of opportunities to make or break relationships and easily. Only those who want to make a meaning in their life and in others' life take efforts to retain relationships.

9. Many do not want life long relationships and look for only pleasure (they call it happiness!).

10. Lots of precious life-time, energy, money etc gets spent in forming relationships. So, people who make life time relationships are wise.

11. Those who make the best of the life-time relationships live longer with contentment and fulfillment without any diseases!!...Those who make short term relationships suffer with physical, mental and social illnesses and die early!

12. The beginning of every relationship is sparkling and it loses its sparkles when POSSESSIVENESS creeps in!

13. Level and endurance of adaptation will decide the happiness and peace and life-time of a relationship.

Keep rocking...Peacefully yours...Rams!!