Dear all....THIS IS FOR STUDENTS....
The biggest disease in the minds of students and the people around is 'I 'some how' want to get a job'!
The end result is...
1. They listen to and get guided or carried away by the words of seniors ('that subject is not required for IT job, so don't read'...'read only this, this is enough to get a job') and classmates who also have the same disease.
2. They don't listen to the teachers who are right and have more experience in providing all those necessary for job and beyond!!
3. Parents are the biggest virus in putting this disease in their minds.
4. They don't read many subjects.
5. Don't take interest in reading many topics, subjects in-depth, wide and deep and loose out many good things important for their profession.
6. 'If you run behind job, you will not get job or get only a temporary 'so-so' job!...You will always be sad, anxiety struck, fall in to relationships which might further aggravate the situation, not enjoy your hostel or college life.
7. Instead feel like 'I have been sent to a Treasure Island by God. 'He has told me 'You have lots of treasures here. Knowledge, experience, skills, fun, flourishing relationships, memories and people/places which can give all these!'...How much you take is your ability. If you don't take the treasures, waste time and go out, it is your problem!...You have only four / two/ three years for this oppurtunity. After that you can not come back to get them! Opportunity left is, wealth lost forever!...After spending lakhs through loans to open the gate of this Treasure, if you don't take as much as possible, then you are the biggest fool and losing the best and only oppurtunity of life time relevant for that age!...You can't again come back or get that age or environment again!'
8. The above thought will make you spend more time in labs, library, with professors, professionals and friends in discussions on subjects, skills development (arranging programmes, events, projects, researches, workshops, seminars, club/association activities, sports activities, social responsibility programmes, NCC, NSS, visual media programmes etc), projects, internships, conferences etc. You will spend more useful and value added time in classrooms, college and hostel.
9. No one knows which knowledge, experience, learning and skill will be useful, when and which moment in personal or professional or social life. So, it is wiser not to leave any learning moment anywhere in campus. All subjects, skills and experience will be certain useful in life.
10. We have paid and spending precious time period of our life in class rooms and labs. Why not take some usefulness out of it?
11. It is wiser to take as much knowledge and experience from the teachers as possible (i.e insert a 64 GB pendrive inside the brain of each professor, download all that they have in their brains and download all the data in your brain). Also transfer all the knowledge inside all the computers and facilities into your brain.
12. We must have fun too. Work, entertainment and rest need to be balanced. Anything we do without anxiety and looking for results but with involvement and being in the present, losing ourselves in it becomes entertainment, and not work!!...It could be studies or arranging events etc.
13. If our aim is "I am here to learn as much as possible. I will spend my every moment towards this and enjoy the process!...I am not here to just get a job!". Then you will get the best and many of the jobs!...Else you will be a mad, sad and a frustrated sweating dog in the campus with anxiety, arrears, relationship failures and go out with only bad memories and nothing in the hand!!
So, the crux is...
1. Don't listen to your friends and seniors...things that are negative to your common sense!
2. Listen to positive friends and teachers!
3. Make long term/life long flourishing relationships (that help you to grow) and not just fun and pleasure based short term relationships that can only waste your life-time, energy, money and give painful memories.
4. Add valuable, happy and learning memories of college life and not memories that will make you feel sad and put you in tears when you recollect later on in life!
5. Be wiser and not a loser!
6. If you run behind job then you will not get a job or a good job. If you run behind unlimited knowledge, abundant skills and overall/total personality development then you are sure to get many jobs, dream jobs and you can decide to choose one among many on your plate. Else you will be a beggar on the roads with a plate in your hand for a job!!
7. It is a one time unique oppurtunity and you will not get it ever again in life...as you can't get that age and moments back in life!!
So, are you a wiser or a loser??
Peacefully yours...rams...
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