Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL LOVERS WHO FEAR THAT THEIR PARENTS WILL NOT AGREE FOR THEIR MARRIAGE!!
Don't worry...it is sooooooooooooo easy to make your parents agree for your marriage!!
all indian parents ...1. have lots of dreams, needs, wants, expectations to be fulfilled from their children...they want to achieve many things for themselves and for others at home from their children....your parents also will have such dreams...if you meet these they will fall for you, praise you, feel you are responsible to them and family, and will be with you in all your decisions...because they don't want to lose that support, happiness and pleasures from you if they say 'no' to your marriage decision...
2. indian parents are always scared...they want security...fame...power...importance...acceptance...if both of you become big in life, if you become a collector, become a manager, get a job that gives you lots of money, fame, power, authority etc they will feel safe, secured, proud, happy to say that their son is so-and-so....even that girls parents will fall flat and would like to tell that their son in law is a collector and bla bla....so they will agree for your marriage.....
so both of you do all the above......first study well...get good jobs....get power and fame...get lots of money...meet the dreams of your parents...they will fall flat...they will forget religion, caste etc...
in few tough cases you might have to expose them to the world and might have to do some rounds of peace, loving and calm discussions with them, to change their minds...even wild animals can be changed with love and affection...so your parents are nothing!!
do you agree??
so, it is soooooo simple!!
Every parent...Every teacher....want the boys and girls to be successful in life...they like such children...so, be one!!
Rams...Psychologist!!
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