THIS IS FOR PARENTS AND STUDENTS WHO VIEW EVERY MONTH AS GAIN OR LOSS OF MONEY!!...

Dear all...THIS IS FOR PARENTS AND STUDENTS WHO VIEW EVERY MONTH AS GAIN OR LOSS OF MONEY!!

Many parents think that their wards should start working immediately from the next month they finish the course!!...

Even after +2 they think they should get college admission in the following year.

They think taking one year for preparations for competitive exams or waiting for the call letter to join a job etc is a time loss...money loss...they see every first of the month as loss of few tens of thousand of rupees!!

They always compare their wards with their friends, classmates, relatives, neighbours and keep shouting at them...keep counting the losses!!

No one lives here for 100 years!...No one gets the same salary!!...Every one does not remain healthy!!...Every one does not get a balanced life in family, work and social life!!

What if the first ranker dies at 50 of heart attack and your ward lives healthy and earns till 70!!...What if your ward gets double the salary, after one year??...What if your ward gets faster promotions or field work abroad etc...What if your ward jumps many steps in the starting itself by that one year preparation or leaps like a leopard to a higher starting pedestal?

It is better to allow him/her to move forward instead of pushing down in to depression and suicide attempts!!

So, don't count the initial months and years of life as losses. They are long term investments!!

No one can be compared with anyone!!

Every day of life can't be counted as money loss or money gain!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!