hai guys...listen to this...interesting and important to know...
a boy...goody goody boy...likes his mom, her cooking and every thing very much...mom also is a goody goody mom...pampering her child a lot...though she has three sons...
she motivated the boy to study well with all her support and he also scored 199 cut off for both engg and medicine...he got admissions in all the best medical and engg colleges of tamil nadu...
his mom wanted him to be a doctor and admitted him in the best medical college in TN...he could not stay in hostel as he did not like the food there...so complained...all counseling efforts of mom went futile
she changed over to another best medical college in the next big city in TN, where she thought he might like the food...after two months he told her the same issue...she counseled, but he said 'take me out or i will suicide'...
so, he was taken to home...all admissions over everywhere and nothing could be done other than keeping him at home for an year. Next year with the same cut off he was put in an engg college at home town and he grew eating mom's cooking...did well and got placement at TCS...he said 'No, IT job!'...mom again got worried. No core job he could get.
so, they paid a huge sum as capitation and admitted him for MBA, again in a different city. Again food problem. This time mom decided to take a hired house and live with him giving her hand cooked food.
Do you think this guy will survive anywhere?
He might become an MBA and what not, but 'f' all manager he will become!
What is the wrong in his grooming?
Most of our indian mothers, especially TN mothers are like this, too much of attachment and pampering.
Does this happen in US culture?
Which culture is good with respect to this issue?
How to correct ourselves?
Let us remain detached while being attached and remain attached while being detached!
of course, there are many students who even go abroad, live along or live with all country men, religions, multicultural environments etc...even at a young age of 10 or 17...
but there are many such above cases too...mostly all students have adaptability problems as they have lived cozy under the wings of the parents...some adjust...some do not!
rams
a boy...goody goody boy...likes his mom, her cooking and every thing very much...mom also is a goody goody mom...pampering her child a lot...though she has three sons...
she motivated the boy to study well with all her support and he also scored 199 cut off for both engg and medicine...he got admissions in all the best medical and engg colleges of tamil nadu...
his mom wanted him to be a doctor and admitted him in the best medical college in TN...he could not stay in hostel as he did not like the food there...so complained...all counseling efforts of mom went futile
she changed over to another best medical college in the next big city in TN, where she thought he might like the food...after two months he told her the same issue...she counseled, but he said 'take me out or i will suicide'...
so, he was taken to home...all admissions over everywhere and nothing could be done other than keeping him at home for an year. Next year with the same cut off he was put in an engg college at home town and he grew eating mom's cooking...did well and got placement at TCS...he said 'No, IT job!'...mom again got worried. No core job he could get.
so, they paid a huge sum as capitation and admitted him for MBA, again in a different city. Again food problem. This time mom decided to take a hired house and live with him giving her hand cooked food.
Do you think this guy will survive anywhere?
He might become an MBA and what not, but 'f' all manager he will become!
What is the wrong in his grooming?
Most of our indian mothers, especially TN mothers are like this, too much of attachment and pampering.
Does this happen in US culture?
Which culture is good with respect to this issue?
How to correct ourselves?
Let us remain detached while being attached and remain attached while being detached!
of course, there are many students who even go abroad, live along or live with all country men, religions, multicultural environments etc...even at a young age of 10 or 17...
but there are many such above cases too...mostly all students have adaptability problems as they have lived cozy under the wings of the parents...some adjust...some do not!
rams
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