Hai all...
All of us have many people in our life. We keep fighting with them. They become head ache too many times. We feel like ending the relationship too. Some times we don't know what to do. No point in trying to change others after some attempts.
We have to just ask ourselves 'Do i need that person in my life forever or not?'
All of us have many people in our life. We keep fighting with them. They become head ache too many times. We feel like ending the relationship too. Some times we don't know what to do. No point in trying to change others after some attempts.
We have to just ask ourselves 'Do i need that person in my life forever or not?'
If the answer is 'No', just peel off quietly leaving some room to join
back in case there is a change in that person or in our decision. All
human beings make decision errors. All human beings change continuously
during their life cycle. We have to check whether we have the patience.
In relationships, strategies and planning will only bring failures. Love
and patience only will bring success.
If the answer is 'yes' then it is better to change ourselves and adapt to that person. We can adjust and place ourselves in the ok state within the discomfort.
We will get 'yes' answer with only those whom we like beyond our needs and wants from that person.
If the other person is exploiting your obsession then it is better to contact a counselor or psychiatrist who will take you out of the obsession and set you free.
If the other person is in obsessive love or addictive love then it is not love. Better peel off. They have to be treated. You can't be happy and peaceful in that relationship. If you feel you are in obsession then it is better to change ourselves or take help and change. Obsession is not love when it affects our and others' health, happiness, peace, daily chores and success in life.
peacefully yours....rams...psychologist.
If the answer is 'yes' then it is better to change ourselves and adapt to that person. We can adjust and place ourselves in the ok state within the discomfort.
We will get 'yes' answer with only those whom we like beyond our needs and wants from that person.
If the other person is exploiting your obsession then it is better to contact a counselor or psychiatrist who will take you out of the obsession and set you free.
If the other person is in obsessive love or addictive love then it is not love. Better peel off. They have to be treated. You can't be happy and peaceful in that relationship. If you feel you are in obsession then it is better to change ourselves or take help and change. Obsession is not love when it affects our and others' health, happiness, peace, daily chores and success in life.
peacefully yours....rams...psychologist.
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