a fantastic thing about 'brain' and 'love'!!

dear all...today's reading...i read a post which says brain is a fantastic organ which works and thinks 24 hours and 365 days continuously till you fall in love!!...and a comment says 'if you think then you can not fall in love!'...

yes...it is true...no one thinks 'i am going to love him!' and starts loving...it is feeling that happens on its own, suddenly, without any conscious process...of course, it happens when we are conscious, but at a moment our thinking freezes and consciousness stills!!...it just happens that we feel peace and happiness (not pleasure!)....with that person or place or item or a life event!!...so, it is an instantaneous act and feeling of the mind...we lose our ego, status, wealth consciousness, power, authority, caste, religion, consequences etc etc and 'fall' in love!!....by the way, i am not referring to our teenagers falling in love here, by the attraction of the body, but referring to the feeling of love in mind and no changes inside or outside the body!!

so, some people sweep our hearts off suddenly like a tornado without our knowledge!!

yes...brain stops thinking after a person falls in love!!!....if you think about a person and the relationship, start asking questions and trying to find out answers or answer them inside the mind, then you can not fall in love!!...i.e you can not through away your ego, bla bla i listed above, free yourself, and do a free fall in love!!!...not possible!!

so...so...so...

1. brain stops thinking about a person and the relationship at the time of falling in love and once we fall in love

2. if we think then we do not fall in love...

3. 'fall' word is not negative but positive of freeing ourselves from all the clutches of the mind, society etc and feeling and breathing freedom...

4. it is not going to cause troubles in practical life as it is not body related...even if it is body related it is not known to others and remains within....and the true feeling of love does not feel possessive and all associated negative thinking, emotions and behaviours...and therefore it does not affect the person being loved...

5. only when it is pure lust then it causes all the negatives and life gets ruined now or later...for both concerned...

peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist...