Dear all…IMPORTANT POST FOR ALL…just three days back I wrote something about the word SERVICE…I don’t know how many of you read it…but here are some more things about this word most important for life…
1. All living organisms exist on earth for others. i.e in ‘service’ of others.
2. Human beings are also born for the same.
3. To live in peace, some element of perception of SERVICE in our activities is vital.
4. Perception of SERVICE is vital for formation of any lifelong emotional relationship…i.e anything that one does for the other should be perceived as a ‘service’ and ‘sacrifice of their time, energy, life time, love, emotions, feelings, thoughts, wealth, etc’
5. Whether a love or love marriage or arranged marriage or any relationship can survive, be peaceful, exist or live only if one perceives the activities, love, emotional labour etc of the other as service and sacrifice. Otherwise it will only be perceived as ‘duty’ or ‘business’ which cannot lead to a heart to heart everlasting bonding between two people.
6. All those who perceive all the dynamics in organizations or homes as business or duty cannot find peace and happiness in organizations and home.
7. many examples can be given...here is one....If a bank employee feels he is doing service for all customers, he will involve, he will do good job, everyone will praise, he will be known to all, he will be the best employee of the customers, he will be famous, he will be peaceful, he will feel a sense of fulfillment etc. But if he feels he is only going to earn some money for his home living, he is just doing his duty for the money he earns, he cannot be happy, he cannot be peaceful, he cannot perform to the satisfaction of his customers AND ANY ONE WHO IS NOT PERCEIVING ENERGY, HAPPINESS, HEALTH, PEACE, CONTENTMENT AT OFFICE CAN NOT FIND ALL THESE AT HOME!!!
8. If a husband/wife perceives his wife/husband or lover as ‘a gift of Nature’ and perceives all that they do as service and sacrifice then love will bloom between them, it will get strengthened every moment, it will remain strong forever…else it will break…
9. Where perception of service is there, love is sure to emerge…e.g people fall in love with teachers, preachers, spiritual leaders, nurses (not referring to the ladies…I am referring to their service…nurse could be a man too! (e.g red cross home nurses)), receptionists etc.
10. If you don’t want to fall in love with a person, don’t perceive their activities as service…perceive as duty and business…you will not fall in love with them…if you are attracted towards them then it is lust and like…not love…
more later...bye...enjoy the week end...and festival days...
peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist...
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