Dear all…there are many english words which define the entire life…I had earlier mentioned about one word called PERCEPTION…the basic of peace in life is behind this word PERCEPTION…if we have positive perceptions about people, relationships and life events then we will get positive emotions and positive behaviours which leads to peace, contentment and great physical, mental and social health. Negative perceptions lead to all negatives and destruction. So, PEACE IN LIFE IS INSIDE THE SINGLE WORD CALLED PERCEPTION.
Another word I discussed yesterday was ADAPTABILITY!!....this word is the son of PERCEPTION. Without adaptability we can not find peace and all positives like great relationships, great learning, great life etc.
Another word I want to bring in front of you today is SERVICE. This is another important word which is the daughter of PERCEPTION….some of my thoughts are as follows….
1. All living organisms on this earth live for others. They kill and eat justttt for their survival. Not for pleasure. They indulge in reproductive act also for procreation which is not a conscious act, but a natural instinct. But human beings are the only selfish animals. They exploit and destroy other living organisms for pleasure and indulge in reproductive act, again for pleasure, which is a conscious act. Pleasure drives human beings to crave. So, they can never feel peaceful and contented.
2. Under this scenario PERCEPTION OF SERVICE from other people and living organisms around, only can bring peace and contentment in his life.
3. Also HEALTHY SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS FOR LONG TIME IN LIFE ARE POSSIBLE ONLY IF HE PERCEIVES ‘SERVICE’ FROM THE ACTS OF OTHERS…AND THROUGH ALL HIS BEHAVIOURS HE FEELS HE IS DOING ‘SERVICE’ TO PEOPLE AND ANIMALS. If this perception is not there, it is impossible for him to be peaceful, contented and to have great relationships.
4. If children feel ‘parents have produced us. It is their duty and responsibility to look after us. Therefore, they are doing all these!’ then they will not love their parents. There will be no peace and contentment. Vice versa is also true. Whereas if they feel what they are doing or being done by the other party is a SERVICE, then love will bloom, relationship will become stronger every day. Peace and contentment will be the back bone of the life and relationship.
5. If students feel ‘teacher is getting salary and therefore he is not doing service but business!’…and if the teacher is also teaching for only salary, then there is no love between the two, no love in the process, it becomes only a business, and there is no peace and contentment. Whereas if both parties feel that teaching process is a SERVICE then there is love amongst them, teaching is done In a better way, relationship remains for life long, students will feel indebted, and there will be peace and contentment for all.
like this we can go on and on...
i have more to type...but no time now...will continue later...
several thoughts...several issues...several words....tsunami my mind all the time...but no time to type...so will type whenever i get time...
bye....peacefully yours...rams...
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