"sir, i love him and want to live with him. But he hates me and has applied for divorce. Tell me what to do?'

Dear all...an issue came in front of me today few minutes back...and i happen to tell this to that person...thought of posting it here too...

when a husband and wife go to court, with one asking for divorce and the other asking for right to live with the other…it is better that the person asking for right to live…

1. Uses LOVE as the weapon to fight the case….

2. if hate, anger and arrogance is used as weapon, the person’s ego might win, but life of the person will be lost…because ultimately after the win, living together with love is the aim…

3. Even if the person wins, it is better the person attributes and gifts the win to the other person, so that love remains and there is light after the fight, and living together thereafter is pleasant, cool, heavenly and gifted…..

4. it is better the win is due to not the legality of the case, but the love of the person to change the other person who sought divorce….

5. it is better the person throws away the ego and fights the case, because ego will only cause damage and will result in loss of life ultimately…down to earth human fight with LOVE as the weapon will win…..

6. ego might give momentary pleasure, fame, glitter in lime light, but after those few seconds of light, life will become dark…

7. When we fight with our ego, ego will win, the issue will get lost, ultimately we lose…when we fight with LOVE, both we and the cause win….

8. when we fight against a superman with ego, there will be no discussions, because the fight is between the egos and not for the cause…ultimately one of the egos will win, the issue will get lost….

9. when we fight, BOTH the cause and means should be right, else we lose in reality….

10. legal winning may not be reality-winning…

11. When you fight for a right cause, be softened with love, but be firm….

12. when you fight for yourself and your ego, you lose…when you fight for others without ego and with LOVE you win…

13. Ego-winning is no winning…LOVE winning is real winning….

14. Never hate people, organizations, country, religion, race, cultures, caste…only ask for equality, rights to have LOVE, happiness, peace, happiness, health, contentment and self-actualisation

peacefully yours....rams...health psychologist....