Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
What every one experiences or feels or thinks can't be defined as love. Our needs, wants and expectations can't be defined as love. Definitions in Human Behaviours have to be universal and health enhancing. Our acceptability or not acceptability does not make or become definitions.
Anything that is health enhancing is what is love. Anything that is health compromising can't become love. Health is related to body, mind and our social relationships.
Peace, happiness (not pleasures), health, contentment, fulfillment, self actualisation and self trancending are the basics of life.
Obsession is not health enhancing for both. It leads to a big list of health compromising behaviours. Therefore, it is not love.
When body is involved it can't become love as it is pleasure based leading to all negatives such as urges, cravings, frustrations, sadness, spoiled relationships etc.
Therefore, love is devotional and unconditional and it is practically possible. This gives all the basics above. This is the ideal state and one extreme. The other extreme is all other definitions of love that we think, hear and read where body is involved. Which extreme you are closer to, defines how much of basics you will get in life.
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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