THIS IS FOR ALL WHO WANT TRUE AND PURE LOVE IN THEIR LIFE...THOSE WHO WANT THE REAL WEALTH IN LIFE!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL WHO WANT TRUE AND PURE LOVE IN THEIR LIFE...THOSE WHO WANT THE REAL WEALTH IN LIFE...

Life is a journey...we meet many people in this journey.....it is unavoidable...it is our destiny...we can’t change the destiny...there is no way that we can avoid them...how long they remain, we don’t know... what will be the impact of them on our life, we don’t know...how we will impact their life, we don’t know!!

We like some...we don’t like some...some we like more...some we like less...some we love...some we love for only for some time...some remain with us for entire life...we love them for life time...these are sources of unconditional love...they may be perceptional or real...we love them wherever they are...whether they talk or not...their memories remain forever throughout the life...they leave only pleasant memories!!...they remain physically or virtually...they only improve, help, support happiness, health, peace, contentment, fulfillment, success in all domains of our life.

Mostly everyone will come to us with some exploitational or business (could be financial, emotional, service, legal) needs, wants and expectations...hidden interests or vested interests or agenda, known to them or unknown to them...when they don’t get they will leave us...or when their needs are no more there, then also they will leave...or if they don’t get what they need for the time, money and energy they spend, then also they leave...only those who do not have any needs, wants and expectations will remain...it is rare...only those who understand the value of people and relationships are like this...one meets such very rare people rarely...maybe once in a life time...they will remain in life forever...there will be no disturbance in our peace, happiness, health, comfort zones etc because of them...they are in our life only to give...so, our life will only improve and will not go down...they are highly adaptable...so, it is quite natural that we fall in love with them...we attach the word love to body needs which is actually not correct...this is another reason why our loves are not successful for life time...

It is difficult to find unconditional and devotional love even in committed relationships. Committed relationships are those which are formed by human beings in the social systems they fabricated. But finding an unconditional and devotional love in non committed relationships is truly godly and divine.

We get attached with such sources of unconditional love...love is not what others around (living and non living) give us, it is what we perceive as we get from others...without falling in love one can not perceive love from the sources of love...some may not get such people of unconditional love...probably that destiny has decided that they don’t deserve...because they are not giving unconditional love to others and they are highly demanding, expecting with tons and tons of needs and wants...they probably don’t know that they can even create sources of unconditional love through pets, plants and other living and non living organisms/items...but the truth is without giving unconditional love, without perceiving unconditional love, one cannot get or perceive unconditional love...they will suffer in their relationships due to this reason which they have to bear with...or learn to give unconditional love...unconditional love is the true love...pure love...we cannot remain away from sources of unconditional love if we come across one in our life as we get attracted towards that source...it is unavoidable.

There are only two things in this world. (1) PROVEN THINGS (2) UNPROVEN THINGS. Proven things are proved by science. And scientists will continue ‘proving the unproven’ or ‘disproving the proven ones with new concepts’. It is an endless journey.

Unproven things are only beliefs of different individuals as per their learning, experience, feelings and perceptions. Discussing (it is all about the 'issue') or arguing (is all about who is right. i.e ego. Not the issue) about the unproven things is a waste of time and energy. No one can convince the other as they are not proved by science. What is important is that we should ‘believe’ in unproven things (e.g concept of god, religion, caste etc) in a way that gives us the vitals of this life...i.e...peace, happiness, good physical health, mental health, social well-being with every one, contentment and fulfillment in life, helps us to self actualise and self transcend. But we don’t do this. We believe and get attached to these unproven things due to fears and insecurity...for identity, image, safety, food, clothing, shelter, mental parasitic dependence etc. That is why we don’t get the vitals of life.

Believing that Nature is God and we are part of Nature, understanding the Nature in the right perspective, helps us to protect Nature around, without which we and other life cannot exist on this earth. It also helps us to be self confident and good human beings. Believing in karma helps us to be good human beings. Karma means, if you do good, think good and remain a good human being for you and others, only good things can happen to you, only good people will come in your life, only good relationships will happen with you, if someone tries to do harm to you, they will be destroyed by your good karma.

So, the crux is...

1. Learn to be a source of unconditional love to living and non living, so that you can get one or more of such sources of unconditional love. Only unconditional love can give the vitals of life.

2. We understand, accept and can feel the proven things. We need to understand, perceive the unproven things in a way we get the vitals of life. Otherwise there is absolutely no use of those beliefs for our life. They will only remain as pain and will not allow us to get the vitals in life.

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist.