Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
All exciting, ultimate, divine loves...whether committed or not committed...becomes a pain and separates people, when it reaches a stage of possessiveness and obsession...this is when people start suspecting each other...due to insecure feeling of losing the person and relationship!!
Instead of suspecting with a fear that he/she may cheat, will have illicit relationship etc...and start indulging in related negative behaviours of sniffing, checking, monitoring, controlling, dictating etc (which actually results in the opposite feared effect of the person cheating or leaving the relationship physically or mentally or socially), if we start thinking "How i can be inside his or her heart always in such a way that he or she will not cheat me?" then positive behaviours and emotions will result...there is no way that relationships or loves break...they will only get strengthened every second and minute and will live for ever!!
Of course, both people in relationships should do this!!
So, let us not think about how to keep people within four walls or in a relationship...let us think about how to live in others' hearts!!..This will ensure people to live in four walls, homes, hearts, in relationships, peacefully, happily, healthily!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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