Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
If we want to shout on some one, we have to get angry, without getting angry we can't shout on some one. For getting angry we have to think and perceive negatively about that person. This is the story of negative emotions.
Same way if we have to love some one, we have to have positive perceptions and thinking about that person. With negative perceptions we can't love a person!!
Suspecting, monitoring, controlling, demanding, threatening, quoting rules and regulations, quoting duties and responsibilities etc are negative and with these perceptions we can not love some one!!
To love some one our mind has to be free...empty...it should be light...it should be feather like...it should be like a butterfly...it should flutter to fly...no stress...it should not be looking or expecting anything from that person...no needs, wants and expectations...it should not be a parasitic...it should be able to find all its needs by itself...it should love everything around...in the nature....and then perceive positive perceptions about that person...only then we can love a person.
By just behaviours, like we see in movies, without thinking of positives about a person, we can't show positive emotions...and therefore, we can't love a person!!
Any love that emanates from the above, will be unconditional and eternal, real, true, pure and ever lasting!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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