While changing others, what is the strategy to be used?

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

While trying to change others, don't try to change their behaviours or emotions (feelings). It will not change. Because the cause of those behaviours is residing firmly in the brain in the form of LEARNING or belief and this is what is generating the behaviours.

So, Try to change their thoughts...thinking...cognition!! ...Ask lots of questions...use old memories...photos and videos...make them to think...not once, many times...if required many days...

The old learning will get erased...will get unlearnt...new learning will take place...new beliefs will get planted...

Automatically the behaviours, feelings or emotions will change and this change will remain for a long time!!

All the best!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!