Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
Every moment in our life, we are trying to change others around us so that our relationship with them is peaceful. But they don't even listen to it. So, we are frustrated.
The other person also has the same complaint against us!!
What to do?
Where there are unfulfilled expectations, one will not listen to the other, forget about changing!!
So, ask that person to tell his or her expectations from you.
Try to fulfill those which are in your comfort zone and priority to them. Then tell the other person the things you have done and ask him/her to listen to your list of expectations. Now the other person will listen and change. Like this sit and work out to listen to each other, change each other and meet each other's expectations, so that one will listen to the other and peace will prevail!!😀...where it is beyond the comfort zone of both, again have several rounds of talks...something might emerge and peace will prevail!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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