Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
Agree that hugs are important for a healthy mind, to perceive feeling of acceptance, not to feel lonely, feel living amidst the loving people etc. But that has to be a from a health enhancing person and health enhancing relationship. Else it will not give peace and be available for entire life. With every person, every hug comes a load of wants, needs and expectations, to meet which you don't have finances, time and energy!!
Some are not possessive and some become possessive that they want such hugs from the same person for life long. This is possible from only unconditional and devotional relationships.
Hugs are also of different types. Pleasure giving or happiness giving. Hugs without reproductive behaviour thoughts or feelings gives happiness (not craving and urging). Hugs with reproductive behaviour needs give pleasure and all associated negatives.
Hugs with sources of unconditional love perceptions...trees, puppies, cats, dolls, pillows etc ask for no investment of anything.
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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