'If you live like your parents, you will only become that or less than that!!...If you want to achieve more than your parents, then you have to live differently!!'

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS AND CHILDREN...

Every parent has a definition of life and living. Purpose of life. Who we are etc. They have a definition of working culture, what is good, not good, what is right, not right, what is correct and incorrect etc.

With these definitions, knowledge and wisdom they have achieved what ever they have achieved ...with respect to peace, happiness, good physical health, mental health, contentment in life, fulfillment in life, social well-being, fame, power/authority, organisational and social status, image or identity etc. Whatever they achieved may be an exceptional thing and outstanding thing for them.

If we follow their definitions and food steps we will either achieve the same or little less than that.

If they lived with out any peace, if they received many life style diseases, if they only developed hate from others, if they only made a small wealth (in our perception), if they achieved fame or authority only in their relatives circles, if they lived with all those divisive sensitivities of religion, caste etc, then you are also most likely get the same in your life...if you keep the same definitions of life listed above.

If your parents are hybrid, then most likely you are likely to be much better than both of them with respect to intelligence, skills and various other mental faculties and traits.

So, you are better equipped by nature to grow much greater levels than your parents in all the domains of professional, personal, social, organisational and family life listed above.

Therefore, the crux is....

'If you live like your parents, you will only become that or less than that!!...If you want to achieve more than your parents, then you have to live differently. All your definitions about everything in life has to be different than theirs which includes about eating, health, marriage, entertainment, family, relationships etc.

Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist!!