THIS IS FOR ALL UNMARRIED AND MARRIED PEOPLE WHO WANT THEIR LOVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL UNMARRIED AND MARRIED PEOPLE WHO WANT THEIR LOVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL!!

Love is not adoring the other person!
Love is not writing poems and kavithas!!
Love is not raising Taj Mahal after death!!
Love is not sculpturing the girl on a stone!!
Love is not offering poojas at temples for your beloved!!
Love is not buying gifts for your beloved!!
Love is not sending messages of love!!
Love is not talking about how you will look after your lover in future!!
Love is not clicking pics of your lover, framing it and doing pooja!!
Love is not earning money and giving to your lover!!
Love is not making wealth for your lover!!
Love is not saying "I can give my life to you!!"
Love is not taking knife and damaging the body!!
Love is not writing "I love you!" with your blood!!
Love is not showing all the stunts as seen in movies!!
Love is not showing caring and love affection to others in front of your lover!!
Love is not saying 'Happy birthday to you!" with costliest gifts!!
Love is not writing itihas of your beloved!!
Love is not about sex!!
Love is not hugging and kissing!!
Love has no negatives ever!! (no negative thoughts, feelings and behaviours)
Love has no hate ever...once loved is always loved!!...If you feel hate, then there was no love!!..There was only a business!!
Love has no wants, needs and expectations!!
Love is total surrender for the other person!!

Love is living with the beloved, giving full attention, time, energy, CARE for the peace, happiness, good physical-mental-social well-being of the beloved!!...Love is all about giving SUPPORT FOR complete and full freedom to think, talk, perceive, express, show, pursue their passions, thoughts, feelings and behaviours of their interest and mood, grow in knowledge, skills, aptitudes, hobbies....Love is being empathetic to understand the other person's likes and dislikes, wants and needs, expectations, the pain of their body and mind, ups and downs of the moods and interests of beloved...understanding, appreciating, accepting and helping!!...Love is being a father, mother, brother, son, daughter,
husband, wife, soul mate, bestest friend, sister and all other undefined relationships too!!...Love is helping in all the chores of the person and family!!

Love is not gender specific...so it is same for both in an emotional relationship!!...Both should reciprocate love to each other!!

So, love is caring, helping and supporting while being empathetic, unconditional and devotional!!

Perception of love and affection and feeling of acceptance from the significant people, organisations and social groups is basic of life and living!!

Peacefully yours...rams...psychologist!!