THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO KEEP ARGUING WITH PEOPLE AND FEEL FRUSTRATED THAT NO ONE UNDERSTAND OR FEELS THEIR FAITHS AND BELIEFS OR EXPERIENCES OR PAINS....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL THOSE WHO KEEP ARGUING WITH PEOPLE AND FEEL FRUSTRATED THAT NO ONE UNDERSTAND OR FEELS THEIR FAITHS AND BELIEFS OR EXPERIENCES OR PAINS...

Anything which is only a feeling or only FELT is felt differently by different people!!

There is nothing that your feeling is right or the feeling of the other person is wrong and vice versa!

So, unless we feel the same as the other person, we can't be in unison and always we will be at variance!!

Therefore, there is no point in arguing or trying to prove that you are right or he is wrong!!

There will be common understanding, acceptance only in proven things, which are time, people and place independent.

So, put in efforts to make the other person also feel what you have felt, if the other person is in a mental state of readiness to undergo the process and ready to devote, time, energy and other resources to walk your way to feel it, then that is the first and good sign of change to learn. If that person is not, then put in efforts to bring that person to this state of readiness to put in efforts to feel. Then you teach that person how to feel it.

There is no point in criticizing that person for not having felt what you have felt. If you are interested in proving you are right, if you want to make the person to change...learn...if you want that person gain the pleasure or happiness that you got, then you will have take interest, put in the efforts to make that person to feel it!!

Understanding...feeling...and experiencing are all different!!...Only when all these stages are passed through, we will get wisdom related to that faith or belief!!

All the best!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!