THIS IS FOR ALL...BUT SPECIALLY FOR YOUNG PEOPLE!!

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...BUT SPECIALLY FOR YOUNG PEOPLE!!

These days far tooooo many raw data or processed information are flowing in the hands and eyes of every one!!

In news papers, whatsapp, facebook, hundreds of tv channels!!

Every word or move of every one is discussed in detail by so many people!!...I agree that healthy outlets should be there for expression of thoughts, feelings and emotions in a democratic system.

Most of them are corrupted with perspectives of the reporters. So, we don't get the truth!!...At the end we are inside a big confusion only without any clarity!!

In most of the issues we can't do anything, other than hear gossips and talk gossips!!

Net result is, we only energize ourselves with negative energy, and release or store it, which affects our mind, health and social relationships.

Most importantly we are only wasting our previous life time, energy to screw up our physical, mental and social well-being!!

Therefore, it is better not to spend our time and energy on these issues, instead, can list down our goals or aims, how our life should be, what all we should achieve when in our life, how to improve our knowledge, skills, experience, wisdom etc...how to get good marks...how to move up in profession...etc.

All those people who spend more time on such issues stand wherever they are in life!!...Or go down!!...No improvement!!

Social responsibility?....Yes, we can spend some time in what ever we can do by DOING in which ever domain possible. Some examples are helping aged people at home and outside, spending some time with them to boost their morale, helping students, disadvantaged people (to be specific, orphans, people at 'old age home's, terminally ill people, people suffering from physical, mental and social pains), NSS, NCC etc.

Otherwise we should totally jump inside the murky waters of politics or whatever and dedicate our life to that to contribute whatever we can to society or country!!

So, the crux is...

DON'T WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE TIME IN DISCUSSING ALL THE ISSUES DISCUSSED IN MEDIA AND SOCIAL MEDIA. INSTEAD FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETY, COUNTRY AND HUMANITY IN A MEASURABLE AND QUANTIFIABLE (AT LEAST TO YOUR OWN SELF) MANNER THAT GIVES HAPPINESS, GOOD HEALTH, USEFULNESS, CONTENTMENT AND FULFILLMENT TO YOU AND OTHERS.

Dedicating our life time for evolving, growing and maturing in to a good responsible human being is not selfishness. It is the most important thing and vital thing every one should focus at. This is the biggest service to family, society, country and humanity!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!