What is the Purpose of Marriage??

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

What is the purpose of marriage?

Is it for satiation of body needs (Food, air, water, clothes, shelter, physical intimacies and sex...and security of all these for life time!!)?...It is your body and you only need to find the ways of its satiation. How can you depend upon, demand, expect others for satiation of your needs??...How to get all these by yourself is the first education one needs to get!!...If you can not get them by yourself then no use of living as you can not live peacefully by expecting or demanding from others through words of fear, control, demands, quoting legal and social rules and regulations!!!...If you can not get yourself then why do you increase its needs?...Why do you make it to ask for and more and more?...It is your problem!!!!...It can't be dumped on others!!...If you say, i am ready to give this and that, then it is only a business of exchange of commodity or services for flesh and in a business losses and gains or collapses are possible and no business lives for ever and eternity, forever with peace, happiness and good health, which we have to accept, as it is the law of nature!!

First education and learning one needs to get is on this need and how to satiate these needs by ourselves!!

Is marriage for making wealth and money for life through others?

The question itself says who you are, what are your belief systems are and shows how parasitic or weak or crooked you are and therefore, there is no way of peace, happiness and health in your life!!

Is marriage for producing children through conventional and traditional methods, to be a reason of continuation of life on earth?....If so, then this RESPONSIBILITY comes with a tremendous big package of dedicating time, energy, emotions, and ultimate test and challenge for adaptations with another person of opposite sex. It is not a simple task that as you envisage or your parents feel or communities and societies feels in the present and future concept of life and living!!...For this one has to be self responsible, socially responsible, requires highest state of emotional and spiritual intelligence...first get them!!...Learn them!!...Else you are sure not to get peace, happiness, pleasures, health and success in life!!...IF YOU CAN NOT, THEN DON'T GET MARRIED AND WASTE YOUR LIFE, LIFE OF ANOTHER PERSON AND CHILDREN WHO HAVE NOT DONE ANY MISTAKE OTHER THAN BEING BORN OUT OF YOUR BODY AND SINS!!

Many who have all their thoughts, feelings and behaviours for society get married. Having thoughts and feelings for humanity and society are not wrong. But not having these for self and our significant people is not correct. Self responsibility takes priority over social responsibility!!!...so first take care of yourself and your parents, family first!!...Else don't be a part of and don't create social systems of marriage and family of traditional and conventional type!!...Be responsible in all dimensions!!!

What for then Marriage??

Certainly nor for the above. Then for what??

More later...

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!