Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
We get attracted to others for the needs of the body and mind.
But when we look at from our domain of needs, wants and happiness, the love fails. It is not love. It is only a business..emotional business...flesh trade. Therefore, it is sureeeeeeeeeee to fail!!
When we look at the same from the domain of the other person...appreciating his/her longingness for us...appreciating his or her feelings of love...appreciating the efforts they take to spend time for us...the sacrifices they do to show love and affection to us...the time and energy they spend to be for us...the abundance of love that person has for our happiness, for meeting our needs, wants and expectations, when we understand the issues of the other person, when we put in our efforts to make the other person happy...then the love flourishes!!
When we do yoga asanas, meditation our body and mind will change, get balanced, come out of verithanamaana animal urges and cravings...it gets stabilised...it seeks only healthy food and not sedentary unhealthy fast food, it keeps always mind positive about the love and other person, it gives a self regulating body and mind, it asks only when the other person is present, does not ask when the other person is not present...so our life becomes happy, it comes out of the pleasure domain, it is cool, it enjoys the love, it enjoys the relationship of the other person, it dwells in the right domain of making love and relationships with others!!
Peacefully yours....Rams...Psychologist!!
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