Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
What i have noticed is that...everyone has problems because of
their own beliefs...definitions of rights and wrongs...correct and
in-corrects...true and untrue...They try to find solutions while being within
this garbage. They value it as a treasure, but truly a garbage. That is why it
is giving all the pains and problems in their life. They are obsessed with it.
They don’t want to leave and come out of it. They ruin their peace and health.
But still remain there due to some stupid thoughts and firm beliefs. They try
to find solutions while being inside the gutter or underground-drainage sump.
Only when you come out of it, you will not feel suffocation. You will feel
freedom. The brain will work better. The mind will know what is right for them.
We will be able to find the correct solutions. We will know that we were inside
the hell.
So, don’t try to find solutions while being inside the septic
tank. Come out of it, breathe fresh air, see the world, then the mind will find
the new solutions and you can select the solution that is best suited for you.
How to know which is heaven and which is hell?....If you are not
able to find peace, happiness, good physical-mental and social well-being,
contentment, fulfilment, self actualisation and self transcendence, then you
are actually inside a shit-tank!!...Irrespective of who is there with you in
that tank and how much they love you. Bring them also out. Almost everyone is
in a state of ‘Learned Helplessness”..i.e accepting that suffocating social
environment is their destiny...nothing can be done...it is written on their
forehead...they have to live like that only...there is no escape...the selfish
caring people cannot be changed...compromises and sacrifices in the chore
aspects of human life in my culture or caste group or religion is inevitable.
All this type of thinking is what is called Learned Helplessness, leading to
low self concept, low self esteem, low self confidence.
They need assertiveness training to find strength in them, to
come out of the shit, to bring others also out, or leave them there saying “I
love you all. I will look after you. I will ensure your safety and security in
all dimensions. I will ensure all your dreams come true. Because without you
all i am not there. You have made me what i am. But Let me live my life. Let me
be the Change Agent of this family. Let me bring this family out of this rotten
culture. Let me set a new path for the future generations. Let me liberate
every one. Let me make my life meaningful. Let me pave the way for freedom of
my off-springs!!” and live your life. This is the only way.
Initially the significant people may get angry and say you are
irresponsible etc. But what they need is money to live a comfortable life, projection
to others that they live wealthy and rich, the feeling that their needs of
food, living place, clothing, comforts, health security are all ensured. Once
these are done, they will follow your ‘religion’!!
Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist!!
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