who are boys?..Who are girls??

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL GIRLS...AND FOR ALL PARENTS...

Nature drives girls to get attracted towards opposite sex subconsciously, when they attain age, for reproduction and rearing. So, subconsciously they are driven to analyse a person whether he will produce a healthy off-spring or not, whether he will remain with me to support my child delivery process, will i get enough love and affection and care from him, will he support me in all the issues related to this, will he be with me to rear this child, will i get emotional, social and all sort of supports and securities from him for growing the child ....all these takes place subconsciously...and she finds a guy...and then proceeds with the further moves towards loving, getting married, making a family, reproduction etc...

But the boys have to produce more off-springs...varieties of human beings...that is how they are produced by nature...so, they don't have that rearing orientation...they don't have the patience...of long gestation period...the responsibility bearing attitude...not ready for the sacrifices and compromises...not ready to accept anything less in their body needs and wants...unless they are groomed for the family orientation...their moral values and definition of life and living need to be groomed for this...by parents and society...by their own realization also it has to come for boys...

so, if this grooming is not there, they only get attracted for body needs and vanish if it is met or not met...

so, the girls feel frustrated, cheated, trust failure etc...therefore, marriages and loves fail!!

Therefore, the parents should groom their boys for understanding girls, their subconscious needs, for family living, for loving the girl the way she expects, for child production and rearing, for supporting the girl in this physically-mentally-socially-emotionally tough process which goes on for nearly 20 years!!...So, it is not a joke!!...The parents and society need to groom the boys for this responsibility.

Just driving them mad for marks, jobs, achievements etc only makes them to be animal like, to go to girls only for some hugs, kisses and sex, spoil the life of girls, both before marriage and after marriage...it also spoils the life, mind, health of the boys too, in a long run!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!