hai all...so, what is the opposite of love...hatred or fear?....it continues...the opinions of others...
"I agree that fear is the opposite of love"
"All the books I've read also says that every moment we are either choosing fear or love. The outcomes of our actions and the response and our world also depends on what we choose - fear or love"
"Yes, and it think it all comes down to fear or love as a under-pinnings for most of our ideals and behaviors anywhere from desiring greed and wars to desiring equality and peace"
now the comment from me...about love...
"love is a feeling that needs to be focused on committed relationships. while love is universal and unconditional, relationships are always conditional. That is why in most circumstances multiple relationships do not work very well. There is always pain in multiple relationships. That is why divorce becomes necessary. So that you can get out of a relationship to go into another. otherwise everything will be messy. As it is impossible to accept a lover having another lover apart from you. If you get attracted to another person which may happen, not to pursue the other person. Instead go inwards and see what feelings that the other person evoked in you and be with the feelings instead of chasing your new love. Also i happened to come across a new research by some stanford guy that says that women more than men prefer or attracted to different partners in a safe and nonthreatening situation!
hmmm...it is easy to say, but practically is it possible?...there are n number of people with this 'multiple' headache issue, unable to come out of it!
why this damn nature has given the ability to multiple loves and 'networked' relationships"
here is a comment from another person....
"Well, yes...some people are gluttons for love, sex, and punishment. But in all seriousness, I think we can have more than one romantic love at the same time...why not...does the God of love say you have your share with one love...you can love more than one (romantically) each for different reasons. I wonder if we have a large capacity for love (a good thing), it could give rise to such a dilemma (or whatever you want to call it)"
now some more comments about love....
"I Think love is the spiritual gasoline, and it´s personal, when you can understand this felling you can share with all the people"
"I realize this may sound like a sentimental response, but it isn't. Love is the ultimate investment in another person, of intervention, comfort, encouragement, insight, listening, objectivity, and practicality. Love considers what the other person wants as sacred, and will never emotionally exploit or coerce. This has always been a significant issue for therapists."
so, how is it going guys?...plse respond, so that i know what is happening!
rams
"Hatred is driven by fear"
"All the books I've read also says that every moment we are either choosing fear or love. The outcomes of our actions and the response and our world also depends on what we choose - fear or love"
"Yes, and it think it all comes down to fear or love as a under-pinnings for most of our ideals and behaviors anywhere from desiring greed and wars to desiring equality and peace"
now the comment from me...about love...
"love is a feeling that needs to be focused on committed relationships. while love is universal and unconditional, relationships are always conditional. That is why in most circumstances multiple relationships do not work very well. There is always pain in multiple relationships. That is why divorce becomes necessary. So that you can get out of a relationship to go into another. otherwise everything will be messy. As it is impossible to accept a lover having another lover apart from you. If you get attracted to another person which may happen, not to pursue the other person. Instead go inwards and see what feelings that the other person evoked in you and be with the feelings instead of chasing your new love. Also i happened to come across a new research by some stanford guy that says that women more than men prefer or attracted to different partners in a safe and nonthreatening situation!
hmmm...it is easy to say, but practically is it possible?...there are n number of people with this 'multiple' headache issue, unable to come out of it!
why this damn nature has given the ability to multiple loves and 'networked' relationships"
here is a comment from another person....
"Well, yes...some people are gluttons for love, sex, and punishment. But in all seriousness, I think we can have more than one romantic love at the same time...why not...does the God of love say you have your share with one love...you can love more than one (romantically) each for different reasons. I wonder if we have a large capacity for love (a good thing), it could give rise to such a dilemma (or whatever you want to call it)"
now some more comments about love....
"I Think love is the spiritual gasoline, and it´s personal, when you can understand this felling you can share with all the people"
"I realize this may sound like a sentimental response, but it isn't. Love is the ultimate investment in another person, of intervention, comfort, encouragement, insight, listening, objectivity, and practicality. Love considers what the other person wants as sacred, and will never emotionally exploit or coerce. This has always been a significant issue for therapists."
so, how is it going guys?...plse respond, so that i know what is happening!
rams
