Beliefs...they are part of our
lives...every one has many beliefs...in fact they make our lives...beliefs are
mental structures..they get converted into activities or behaviours what we do
every day...so, they form an important part of our lives...they are the reasons
for our happiness or sadness or achievements or failures, good health or bad
health...
They are not the same with
people...for e.g you may believe in something, whereas another may not believe
in that...he may believe in the opposite of that...
Beliefs are those which are not
proven by science...therefore, no one can prove them...if you believe in
something you can not prove it...you can only state your experiences...the
expereinces of others may be the opposite or different...so, others may not
believe in that...as they are not proven, there is no point in discussing (in a
discussion ‘who says’ is not important ‘what is said’ takes the front seat and
given importance) or arguing (here the point of discussion takes the back seat
and the ‘person’ saying that takes the front seat i.e ‘i am right’ ‘you are
wrong’...so, most of the time arguments result in fights and no solutions...ego
clashes...as in an ego, person is given the prominence and not the issue or
point of discussion) these with others...so, no point in discussing or arguing
on beliefs...neither you can prove you are right nor the other person can prove
he is right...neighther you can prove he is wrong nor he can prove that you are
wrong...
So, which is the right belief and
which is the wrong belief?...which one to be followed and which one not tobe
followed?
Any belief that gives us happiness,
good health, peace, good social relationships and leads us to self
actualisation is the one to be followed. Any belief that gives us unhappiness,
fights, physical and mental illness, spoils peace, spoils our social
relationships...such a belief is wrong. They are not to be followed.
So, we need to take a paper and list
down all the beliefs that we have and follow. Those which give us happiness...i.e positives. They are
to be followed. Those which give us all
negatives should not be followed.
for e.g ‘i strongly believe in
vaasthu’ is a belief...now this person attributes all the good and bad things
that happen in his life to vaasthu...as long as good things happen he will
remain in that house...when bad things (as perceived by him...it may not be
actually bad or sad) happen to him he will move to another house or break the
house here and there and do some modifications or do some pooja etc....his mind
will be all the time thinking about vaasthu and linking all that happens in his
life to that...his 80 year old mother might die due to aging...but he will
attribute that to vaasthu...saying ‘this bath room is not supposed to be here.
It is supposed to be there. This is the reason fo my mothers death (or mother’s
illness etc)...
many people say many things about
vaasthu...saying ‘this is right and this is not right’...many books will say
different things about vaasthu...so, we get confused...we keep breaking the
house...keep shifting or changing the house...keep spending money...so we never
prosper and can not have happiness and peace in life.
Any thing that has to happen in
nature will happen. E.g aging brings bad health and death. Any thing that happens in our life is
positive. E.g we might lose our job. We perceive it as a bad happening. But we
might get a good job later. Or that the old job was likely to bring us
something bad later or no progress etc. Who knows?...so, anything that happens
in our life is for good.
Vaasthu is one example. There are
many such things like this...e.g ‘i believe in this god that he will give me
all good’...’i belive in this temple as when ever i go to that temple, good
things happen in my life’...’i believe in horoscope’...’i believe in
nameology’...’i believe in wearing precious stones that they bring good to
me’...the list is endless.
Beliefs vary from person to person,
place to place, country to country, religion to religion, caste to caste. But
beliefs remain. They remain always. Till the earth is there. They will not go,
as science can not prove everything and anything. There will always be
something which is not proved by science yet.
I keep seeing many people in my life
every day...who are having beliefs which does not bring them peace and
happiness...they only see negatives in people and life situtations...they keep
fighting with others...keep changing their houses...keep breaking...keep
blaming others...they feel they are always right...they feel that they know
everything...they feel that only those who believe in what they believe are
good people, right people etc...when those people differ slightly then they
fight with them also...their negativities and these types of beliefs bring
unhappiness and screws the life of others present in their house, their
friends, relatives etc.
Hmmmm...when these people will
realise and change??????????????????
Imagine if they are your wife, husband,
parents and children, whom you can not leave and go and have to carry them in
your life!!!!!!!!!!...wofffffff, life becomes horrible, is it not????
what to do...we have all such people on earth....
keep rocking guys!
rams
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